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What’s worse than meeting a nice guy, having lots of fun on your date, but then realizing that he hasn’t called you back in 3 weeks? Sound familiar? I’m sure it does because it’s a common situation that happens to many women. This new york life coach is about to break it down for you so read on…

 

No matter how much fun you had on your date or how well you think it turned out, it’s not always easy to predict whether or not the guy will ask you out on a second date.

 

Having said that, most of the time, there are 2 reasons which explain why a guy didn’t ask you on a second date. The first reason is that he just may not be that attracted to you, for whatever reason (not always physical). Sometimes, he just may not see any long term potential for the two of you. In addition, he may not be ready to settle down and stop playing the field and he feels that you are looking for more than just a casual thing.

 

Occasionally, a man will spend time with a girl who he is not interested and this can confuse many women once they find out his true feelings. Some of the reasons for this: He is looking for casual sex only – he is trying to make an ex jealous – he is coming off a breakup and it looking for a rebound, etc. This can happen no matter how amazing you are so don’t let it phase you. Just move on to the next guy.

 

Another big reason is that you did or said something that turned him off, either on the date or on the phone. There are many different things that can go wrong here, so again, don’t get down on yourself.

 

It could be that he discovered a character trait about you that he doesn’t like… maybe because it reminds him of an ex that hurt him. These things are out of your control so just chalk it up to being part of the game.

 

Now it’s a whole ‘nother thing if you seem to never be able to get a second date. In this care, you should sit down with a trusted dating coach and see if he or she can help you get to the root of the problem. Many times, a mock date with your coach will give them the information they need to suggest changes to your strategy.

 

Here’s some dating relationship advice that can help you gauge the level of your date’s interest. The next time he mentions one of his favorite spots (bar, park, etc.) tell him that you think it sounds really cool and that you’d like to check it out with him sometime. If the guy is into you, he will typically jump at the chance to ask you to go with him right then and there.

 

So in closing, do your best to make a good impression but don’t sweat it if a guy doesn’t call you back. It can be due to factors beyond your control so there is no reason to let it affect your confidence. Now get out there and go find your Mr. Big!